I feel I am mature when…
… I talk with the purpose to genuinely share my thoughts with others, not to please or flatter, nor to create a sensation. Otherwise, I keep quiet.
… I feel ease to deal with people from all walks of life, wealthy or poor, healthy or sick, pretty or plain, tall or short, plump or skinny, talkative or taciturn…Really, we are all equal in the eyes of God. No matter what we attempt to do, our bodies go towards the direction of aging and become decayed in the end.
… I respect myself inwardly and outwardly. Outwardly, I keep myself a clean look and wear proper clothes. I use cosmetics for some occasions but I won’t overdo. Inwardly, I truly accept who I am. No one is perfect. I face up to my foibles and I love myself as a whole.
… I won’t feel awkward worrying about other people’s impression on me. I won’t do rubbish self-talk in mind to despise myself.